Bummer

So with about a week and a half to go before the wedding I've found out that one of my bridesmaids won't be able to make it. She's been really sick lately and she's been in the hospital for the last 3 days. It's the second time this month that's she's been in and now they need to do outpatient monitoring. She's trying to talk to the doctors to let her come but I've told her to stay. I don't want her to get worse just b/c she wants to come to my party...plus I don't want to spend the wedding day in the emergency room b/c she's pushed herself too hard.

I can't say I'm not disappointed. She was worried I'd be mad, but I had to explain there is a difference between being sad vs. being mad. I think she feels a lot of guilt b/c I traveled to India when she got married and she feels like she should come to mine come hell or high water. It's been hard convincing her that she's got to forget about the wedding and just take care of herself.

So my three musketeers are down to two :(